He thought I was too flirty and had way too many male friends, and I, well I thought he was an introvert who just didn’t like me having too many friends. I hadn’t heard from him in over a week and I was extremely curious to know what he was up to. [Read: Why you can’t find love no matter what you do] The conflicting emotions were driving me mad. Furiously, I started shuffling through my playlist and found another song I liked. It read “I’m a winner at a losing game” and linked it to Rascal Flatts. All of a sudden, I was more obsessed and in love with my ex than I ever was. Meeting my ex boyfriend again That very evening, we ending up bumping into each other *accidently*, and it was great. And before we knew it, we were hugging each other and I felt like I was in a warm pillow, ready to sink into blissful dreams. [Read: The secret law of attraction in love] We got home together and got back together that evening.
I didn’t want to hear anything about him for the first few days. I loved him, but I didn’t need him or want him back. Perhaps, he was waiting for me to announce the news to the world. Moving on with my life Life was exceptionally good. The same problems we experienced at the start started cropping up all over again, and life was more painful than I could remember.
Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.
They wholeheartedly believe that it's wrong, disrespectful, and if a friend did that to them, they'd never talk to that person again.
Break ups are painful, and as much as it hurts, break ups also bring with it the hope of getting an ex back or meeting someone new to fill the void.
Chances are, whatever he's calling his ex right now, he'll be calling you when things don't go his way. He- read: his parents- paid for it, but still.)” ― Lauren Barnholdt, “Missing you, I missed a part of me I shared with you that’s now gone. Missing you, I missed and missed so much of the world and wasn’t even missed in return.” ― Kamand Kojouri tags: awareness, break-up, breakup, consciousness, ex, experience, gone, good-bye, goodbye, harmony, heartbreak, humanity, inspirational, kamand, kamand-kojouri, kojouri, let-go, love, loved, lover, miss, miss-you, missed, missing, missing-you, quote, relationship, return, shared, sharing, truth, union, unity, world, you tags: applying, applying-what-you-know, celebrity, change, choices, chosen, consequences, crossroads, different-path, dignity, duty, enjoyment, ex, expressing-yourself, fixing-ourself, focus, forgiveness, full-circle, fun, happiness, helpful, helping, helping-others, hobby, imperfections, integrity, joy, just-a-moment-in-time, learning, lessons, letting-go, life-coach, life-s-little-university, lifting-others, living, living-in-the-present, love, love-quotes, moving-forward, nature-of-man, new-life, one-path, opportunity, our-fault, positive-choices, positive-thinking, proactive-vs-reactive, problem-solving, reaching-out, reactions, relationships-101, repeat-mistakes, repeated-patterns, repeating-the-past, seeing-people, self-caused, self-help, self-love, self-work, spiritual-growth, standing-up-for-right, staying-positive, stayingpositiveu-com, success, therapy, trusting, we-control-our-reactions, well-intended, wide-awake, work “He assaulted the man with a psychic wave. I will merely serve as a memory to you:the lover that recited love poems. a broken heart is fixed” ― Billy Talent, “They tell us the only way to move on is to forget.“Forgive,” they say. He was surprised someone from the Man Club hadn’t come by to revoke his dick and balls.” ― Heidi Betts, “I love my ex so much I printed out all his pictures. And I just love customised toilet paper and doormats. I grab both her wrists and pull them aside, all the time wondering how my tough-as-nails ex-girlfriend turned into a tough-as-nails bitch. I hear you've been talkin' shit to her.""Did Isa tell you that? After I found her sleeping around, it took me a while to get over it, get over her. At the end of the night, we got charged for an extra hour. It is hope that makes these chains heavierand autumnal nights longer. Slowly and carefully you have cast a spell Now my virgin heart only longs for you. And given how much less of a man he’d felt the past several weeks, that was really saying something. And now we have come for ‘crazy.” ― Alana Massey, “Hiya, Alex. " She grabs ray chin, trying to force me to look at her, her long nails digging into my skin.“Don't look now, but that's my ex over there."Surely I'm not the only one who takes "don't look now" as "there's no better time than now." I looked."Bad, Ali! He fell to the floor and scurried around the foyer on all fours. "Hmm, about time you figured that one out," Fidelia steped back as he brushed against her long skirt.” ― Kerrelyn Sparks, “You see herand ascend into love. “Yes sir.”Falconer returned his attention to Nordyke.“What’s their location? Missing you, when really, it was the way you made me feeland the things you made us do. "You are a cockroach." In his inebraited state, Cody had no resistance at all to a vampire mind control. I must go nowand I urge you not to look back.” ― Kamand Kojouri tags: autumn, back, break-up, breaking-up, chains, come-back, days, ex, ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, give-up, go, gone, heartbreak, hope, hopeful, hopeless, indulge, kamand, kamand-kojouri, kojouri, love-poem, memory, mind, over, poem, quote, recite, relationship, remember, summer “All we shared was a mattress, and a lie, and an address Baby I don't need you, well baby I don't need you Once occupied by a goddess, now it's a room full of boxes She said, "it's time to leave you" but baby I don't need you! My only regret is that those items don't bear his autograph.” ― Natalya Vorobyova “Love, the exotic bird, came and went. " she asks, her eyes narrowed into slits."Just back off," I say, ignoring her question, "or you'll have a lot more to deal with than a bitter ex-boyfriend.""Are you bitter, Alex? I wondered what other guys were giving her that I couldn't."I used to give a shit," I tell her. ”“He was a full Commander, last I heard, sir.”“Interesting.” Falconer commented. If I have to take him aboard my ship, I want to know all about him.” She swallowed. c)he's gotten into a horrible car crash that's left dead. (We went to prom together, and the limo had to wait in his driveway for half an hour. No longer will I indulgein hopes of getting you back. Extinguish it once and for all."Do not look back," they say. Something about having his ex carry him to the bathroom and help him wash his balls just took all the fun out of becoming an eccentric recluse.” ― Heidi Betts, “I know you not quite well Yet I foolishly surrender my mind to you. Knowing well that I am doomed to misery, I will roll the dice and take delight in my suffering.” ― Kamand Kojouri tags: beguile, bewitch, break-up, cast, delight, dice, doom, ex, fall, falling, foolish, game-over, heart, in-love, know, lose, love-martyr, love-poem, martyr, martyrdom, masochism, masochist, mind, misery, on-purpose, push, relationship, seduce, seduced, self-imposed, spell, standing, suffer, suffering, surrender, virgin “It made him feel like less of a man. It is a way of saying, “We took back ‘bitch’ already. Oh, I don't really like him," she coos, coming close. "I'm waiting for you to come back to me.""Not gonna happen.""Is it because of your stupid chemistry partner? You were once with her, nowwithout her.” ― Kamand Kojouri tags: ascend, become, beloved, boyfriend, break-up, breaking-up, crazy, descend, enchant, enchanted, enrapture, enraptured, ex, falling-in-love, feel, feeling, found, girlfriend, her, hurt, kamand, kamand-kojouri, kojouri, lost, love, love-poem, loved, lover, lovers, loves, loving, madman, pain, painful, poem, poetry, quote, relationship, see, she, with, without, yourself “Gone are the summer daysand my mind along with them. When you are filled to the brim with love,you only emanate love. Only then will you love even the very people you wish to hate.” ― Kamand Kojouri tags: better, breaking-up, breakup, brim, deserve, emanate, ex, fight, fill, fire, forget, forgive, fresh-start, harmony, hate, heartbreak, hope, inspiration, kamand, kamand-kojouri, kojouri, let-go, love, lover, move-on, new-beginning, new-leaf, poem, quote, relationship, surrender, unity, wish “Some people each left their spouse or lover because he or she was no longer the primary source of their happiness; some, because their spouse or lover was, at that time, the primary source of their unhappiness.” ― Mokokoma Mokhonoana tags: breakup, breakups, dead, death, divorce, divorcee, divorcees, divorces, engagement, engagement-ring, engagement-rings, engagements, ex, exes, expectation, expectations, happiness, happy, husband, husbands, love, marriages, marry, proposal, proposals, propose, relationship, relationships, source, sources, spouse, spouses, unhappiness, unhappy, wedding, weddings, wife, wives “The Howard Hughes thing hadn’t actually sounded like such a bad deal until about...oh, eight thirty-five this morning. Self, the anxious caterpillar, took flight and dropped. Instead, I see the phrase and imagine a colon after “bitches,” rendering it a command to other women, a battle cry. I never forgot.” ― Kamand Kojouri tags: beloved, bird, break-up, breaking-up, caterpillar, desire, die, died, ex, exotic, forget, forgetting, forgot, heart, hope, joy, kamand, kamand-kojouri, kojouri, lamp, leave, left, love, love-poem, loved, lover, loves, loving, never, reason, relationship, remember, self, soul, union, unity, want, weep, willow “Does that new man in your life call his ex "a slut", "a whore", "a bitch", "psycho" , "crazy", "a nutter" etc etc.”“They’re about a week outside the Hermes system, Captain.”“Helm, set a course – best possible speed!This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.